Feel like you are in a tug-of-war for your lover’s heart? One of the biggest challenges couples face is the over-involvement of family members in the committed relationship. The trouble comes when a relationship with family members is unhealthy and creates discord between lovers. Many couples come into therapy wanting to work on the relationship between them, but neglect to invite one key participant: this third person. For readability, I will use the term…
Relationship Blog Written By: Danielle Culpepper, LPCC-SSpecialized Relationship Counselor at Reconnecting Columbus Rocking the Boat: Why Conflict is Important for the Health of Your Relationship As a relationship therapist, I’ve come to understand that the frequency of conflict is not the true measure of a relationship’s health or success. The Calm Becomes the Storm: Why…
Written By: Danielle Culpepper, LPCC Not only is the holiday season a time of year filled with joy, love, and togetherness. For many couples, it can also be a challenging time when boundaries with in-laws are pushed and tested. When our in-laws do not respect the boundaries of our relationship or marriage, it is essential…
Written By: Danielle Culpepper, LPCC As the holiday season approaches, families are often filled with excitement and anticipation. However, amidst the joy, the increased stress and expectations can sometimes lead to conflicts. It’s essential for parents to recognize that conflict is a natural part of life and, when handled appropriately, can serve as a valuable…
Written By: Danielle Culpepper, LPCC The holiday season is a time filled with traditions, memories, and meaningful moments. For newly married couples, it presents a unique opportunity to create shared meaning and establish new traditions together. “Shared Meaning” as defined by Dr. John Gottman, simply when couples move from “Me” to “We”. Shared Meaning is…
Written By: Danielle Culpepper, LPCC In the intricate dance of relationships, the dynamics between spouses and their in-laws can sometimes become a challenging waltz. When faced with disrespectful in-laws and the added complexity of a partner who doesn’t provide the support you need, it can feel like a storm brewing on the horizon. However, it’s…
The holiday season can be a time for connection and renewal if we are intentional about putting effort toward improving the relationship at home.